The Dancer Legs Story

IMG_0417“She has dancer legs,” said one of the other tap student moms to my mother after seeing me in my first, tap-dance recital. I was eight years old.

 

I still have dancer legs.

Because I kept dancing through ballet lessons (where my teacher struck my precious, young limbs when I made a mistake), into my beloved, after school tap dance lessons where my legs learned how to translate rhythm, into my teens where the black girls taught me more rhythm through line dances to Motown in the lunchroom annex, into college as a dance major at University of Michigan, to a student at RDT (Repertory Dance Theatre) of SLC, Utah, into post degree concerts and collaborations, into yoga classes where my yoga teacher referred to my legs as good, strong, German-stock pins, to dance teaching gigs, to moving to New York City and continuing my dance study and performance schedule and beyond…

 

Mine are not ballet dancer legs. They are modern dancer legs.

 

My dancer legs only got better. Even after I was not performing on any regular basis, and turned to hiking then running, I still had my dancer legs.  I  always made sure I had good form no matter what type of exercise I was doing.

 

Even after I had kids and went through an intense aerobic phase. I had the legs of a dancer–if only more muscular and bulky. It was an interesting phase even, if afterwards I realized I didn’t like that look so much and began to undo the bulkiness to get back to my long, limber dancer legs.

 

Dancer legs. They are one of my best features.

 

Yes, my legs are strong. They are also long–in proportion to the rest of my body–even though I am only 5 feet, 2 inches tall.

 

I never thought my legs were long enough, though, to be a Broadway dancer. I always chickened out of going to auditions for Broadway gigs. The musical, A Chorus Line changed all that with its varying sizes and body shapes of dancers in that production. But not for me.

 

Yet,  I eventually did make it to Broadway! When my former dance partner had his 20th Anniversary company concert at The Duke on 42nd Street, NYC, I got to be on the bill. Hey Ma! Look at me now! She was so proud. So was my dad. My legs took me there.

 

My legs take me everywhere. Frankly, sometimes I don’t know what I’d do without them. Even if I lost them, I’d still feel them–all the way to my toes. And, I’m lucky that I never had any serious dance-related injury. Grateful for that. Never a knee or hip replacement either.

 

I’ve been very blessed with these strong, German-stock legs.

 

I love them.

 

There, I said it! I love my legs!

 

They’ve been very, very good to me. They keep me going, literally…one-step-in-front-of-the-other.

 

I plan on them keeping me going for a long, long time.

 

So, then this is a letter of gratitude to you, beautiful, dancer legs. May you live long and stay strong with me–as long as we both shall live. You’ve never failed me, no matter where we’ve gone. Even as  you’ve traveled across countries with me, across oceans, walked me through heartbreak and onto grand stages. You’ve taken me places other people said we would never be able to go. But you, my sturdy legs knew otherwise.

 

Here’s my promise to you.

  • I pledge that I will take better and better care of you the older and older I get.
  • I will stretch more, do more yoga-morning and night, see my chiropractor to adjust me so that you continue to work right, slather you with luxurious, plant-based moisturizers, protect you from the sun (well maybe just  a little color)  and keep you–in general–in good, no great! working order.

And, for your part, just keep doing what you do best, being my good, dancer legs.

DOING IT LIKE DRIES IN TEN STEPS

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I recently  watched an interview by Garance Dore with Belgian fashion designer, Dries Van Noten. He had some great things to say about how he runs his fashion house that I thought could apply to businesses across the board. Here are my 10 takeaways…

1. WORK ETHIC

“There’s no real formula.”

You want to have an element of surprise say, by finding a different angle on a thing.

2. TEAMS

Partnering/having feedback helps. That’s why it’s important to choose the people around you.

After everything you make, you can feel a little like “your own child”. Your creation(s) become like your children. That’s why having another pair of eyes to double-check what speaks to your vision the most helps eliminate what doesn’t fit.

3. VISION-BIZ ON A SHOESTRING

It’s possible to start small. Use your experience so far. Then, as you grow, pick where to spend your dollars. Will it be on marketing and publicity as in a magazine spread or a Big Visual?

A fashion show (or perhaps a video) for big, visual impact may be more cost effective. (You can tell your story in 10 minutes VS. a full page advertisement that costs a whole lot more.)

4. BRANDING

Be remembered for something, “like a great shirt in a beautiful fabric that you’ll wear for 20 years.”

A classic–something that’s timeless is memorable. Also taking what’s old and making it new again by showing it in a different light is also memorable. Use what you have and add to it.

5. REBELLION (Defining yourself by what you DON’T do)

Some people say you have to be in a big city. But, with the presence of the Internet, you don’t have to be in a big (fashion) capital or a big city to have a voice. Dries is based in Antwerp, Belgium–not Paris or New York. You can be successful anywhere.

So, if you don’t have a lot of money to do your art of make your business, bloom where you are planted, then travel to the big city. Work/live wherever you want–and why not?!

6. MOBILE WORLD

With so many people increasingly getting their information on their mobile device, you need to be thinking: What’s the first thing people see when they come to the site? Is it unforgettable? Does it translate visually with the viewer on their computer AND their phone?

Leave the small prints/photos at home and use a visual that makes an impact on your mobile device.

7. OPINION

Learn from your peers and others–even those of different generations.

See how others view you–It’s all part of the Big Picture. Get feedback, learn and improve. . The internet is useful in helping you find out what does and doesn’t speak to people.

8. IDEAL CUSTOMER

What does she/he look like? Even if you’re not designing your clothing line or your product for a certain “person”, you can ask yourself some questions, like…“Does she drink tea or a martini?” “When he travels, what kind of souvenir does he pick up?”

This can create a different starting point. And, when you’re working with a team, that is important as other members can bring in additional elements to flesh out a concept or idea even more.

 9. LAUNCHING (A fashion show)

“Backstage is more like a battle than a backstage.”

Launching anything is a lot of work–getting everything ready, etc. But even if it feels like “Hell” at the moment, afterward the fun comes when you can look back, play observer and see how it all turned out.

10. STAYING GROUNDED

Take breaks from your work. What can you do where you don’t feel like you have to control the outcome all the time?  This is necessary to stay fresh, to rejuvenate yourself in order to come back and see things with new eyes.

What grounds you? Maybe, like Dries, it’s gardening.  Or perhaps it’s taking a walk or playing with your child or pet.

What do YOU think? How do YOU do it? Can you relate or implement some of these ideas in your business? Let me know in the comments below.

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Fearless Launching-My Interview With Anne Samoilov


892810_499856503395707_1001748904_oToday, I want to share a few words from Anne Samoilov.

 

Anne Samoilov is the creator of Fearless Launching-http://bit.ly/YN0pbU-a program for entrepreneurs where she teaches practical steps to “create and launch your big ideas”.  Anne has a lot of experience in this field from her former career in Animation, to being a production manager for others like Marie Forleo and Laura Roeder–two of the heaviest-hitting, successful women entrepreneurs out there right now, to launching her own, successful enterprise, Fearless Launching http://bit.ly/YN0pbU.

 

Since the beginning of her program, this is the third round of it with an early bird price of $497 until April 4th, she has helped countless people launch their ideas into viable businesses. This new round will include loads of new great stuff. In addition to the core material, there will be 3 lives classes. Also included is a membership site on Facebook where you can learn from other students as well as alumni of Fearless Launching http://bit.ly/YN0pbU  bringing with them a vast array of expertise.
 

Hey Anne!


1) Can you give us a little background on your “roots” and how you came to start Fearless Launching?
I really got started working in visual effects and animation. I worked in production from my very first job as a receptionist all the way to the last role I played as a Producer.  So – I’ve seen project management, delivery, shipping, and launching at every level in a completely different industry. Plus – I worked mostly at start up divisions and companies…so it prepared me nicely for the online world. 

2) Who is your program for? Who is it not for?
Fearless Launching http://bit.ly/YN0pbU is really a beginners course in many ways, but I won’t say someone who’s already launched won’t get something out of it. The truth is though that it breaks apart the process, covers key elements about communication, getting partners, and putting together the overall timeline for your launch.
 
I’d say it’s not for someone who’s part of a large marketing department or agency doing a launch. This is really for the solopreneur or small business just starting out or trying to finally get their “thing” out into the world.

3) Do you see a trend is what is selling online…i.e., products, services, membership sites? Or, is it a matter of personal preference/style?
It’s funny – my focus changes so often… all of a sudden it seems like everyone’s got an ebook or a summit or a this or a that, but I think it’s my perception only!  Why? I see so many different forms of programs and mixes of these types that work so well.  I really think that what’s selling is people who have built relationship – like, no matter what Danielle Laporte puts out, I am buying it.  When Kris Carr puts out another raw foods book, I will buy it.  Same thing with a ton of other people I respect and admire online and offline.  So – if there’s something that sells – it’s you! 

4) What is different about your program from other programs?
I take a different approach to launching that requires you to really find the style/structure of launching that’s right for your business, your voice,  and most importantly your customers.
 
Some people end up realizing that are not even close to launching, but they leave knowing they have work to do in other areas first.  People leave knowing that a launch doesn’t have to generate revenue to be given the name “launch” – you can do a lead generation focused only launch – your primary goal could be to get more subscribers!
 
Also – I don’t pretend to know all the tech pieces myself. My focus is on partnerships, support, relationships, resources, and the clear plan that fits with  your overall vision for your business.
 
Whew! That was a mouthful. 

5) What is included in this newest round? How does it work?
This might be my last TRULY LIVE round of the program.  The program is a 6 week program with 1 module delivered every week – along with relevant checklists, homework, templates to help you plan out your launch.  I’ve also got a bunch of bonuses included meant to inspire you, keep you moving forward and help you troubleshoot any mishaps during your launch.  
 
This time around I’m including 3 live classes that have never been included! These are 3 stand alone master classes that people in past rounds of the program have told me they needed.  I’m not sure if they’ll be around in future versions of Fearless Launching http://bit.ly/YN0pbU, but for this one we’re doing them totally live…and my lips are sealed on the topics! (You’ll have to wait too, Jean!)
 

6) Anything else you’d like to add, Anne?
The main thing I’d like to add is that Fearless Launching actually has a side effect that I think I attracted, but didn’t create really – and that is an amazing community of people who keep each other in motion. They are active all year round in the alum group and it makes me so happy to see every single time someone relaunches or launches something new! This community is worth the price of admission alone (I think!)..especially with some of the talents that come in and out of the program!
I couldn’t agree more with that last point!

I cannot recommend Anne highly enough. Her creds speak for themselves, she is endorsed by some of THE MOST SUCCESSFUL women entrepreneurs out there and, heck, she’s just one really nice person.

 

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Life Lessons Learned From Snowshoeing

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Hello. The other day, I recorded my thoughts while snowshoe treking on the trail. After thinking I would transcribe the memo recorded off my iPhone, I decided to try “podcasting” it. It’s not perfect, but you get to hear the live version, my steps, my breathy voice (so sexy), in other words…the real deal.

Please excuse the recording’s rough edges. I was inspired. Hope you take away something from it too!

And, Happy Valentines Day!

(Hopefully, although the recording was imported from iTunes, it comes through on your device.)

The recording follows…

 

 

 

 

 

 

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